unresolved issues plague every part of your life. you should be aware of these effects in order to deal with them by dealing with the unresolved issues themselves. unresolved issues often result in people blaming others for the way they feel. so, if the issue goes unresolved the woman likely will continue to think that her unhappiness is coming from current, benign problems rather than her past, major problem. unresolved issues often go unresolved because the people who have them …

they do not fade away unless you make an effort to work through them. whether your unresolved issues originate from disappointments in past or present relationships, you shouldn’t remain enslaved to them. if you have made mistakes in your relationship, your partner might harbor feelings of resentment that have not been fully expressed. even if your partner seems to have forgiven you, you might still feel guilty. these fears might cause you to either lash out in anger or behave …

we would have been together for 6 months this sunday. the reason why he broke up with me is that this coming semester, he will be working/in class for 12 hours a day and he doesn’t want to put me through that, since he won’t have enough time to give me. he then said that he didn’t think this would be the last time we spoke, and that we would somehow find our way back into each other’s lives eventually. …

i’ve had to make it all up for myself, and i’m never sure i got it right.”       “what was always incomprehensible to me was your total lack of feeling for the suffering and shame you could inflict on me with your words and judgments.”  kafka goes on to say that the hostility his father expressed against him as a child, he now turns against himself. personally, i have twice attempted to untie this knot , first with my father and …

getting married for the second time takes courage as there is always that risk of a second marriage turning out to be like your first one. in fact, what you have learned from your first marriage can be some of the most valuable lessons which will make or break your second marriage. if you take up the challenge of learning your lessons well from your first marriage you could have a very good head start at making the success of …