before i start i want to say please don’t berate me, i know i’ve been a terrible wife, i don’t need anyone confirming that fact for me. not long after we got married i realised i wasn’t satisfied with our sex so i asked him about threesomes and he said never, but i bothered him about it until he gave up and we had one with another man. after only a few times of going the group told me that …

there are many temptations to organize our life around the experience of earlier trauma. although it’s speculative on my part to state this, i’m going to assume that, given a choice, most of you would want a loving connection, like the na’vi have, rather than an open relationship in which the emphasis is on self-expression, need fulfillment, and multiple experiences. to my mind, and perhaps yours as well, the idea of two partners growing together in intimacy makes for a …

still, i wanted to explore the concept and consider whether such relationships are viable. they believe polyamory is the perfect solution because a type of controlled and equal infidelity is now permitted. i will provide the example of a relative. so, the author noted that he doubly illustrated that what he was really doing was cheating in the guise of calling it polyamory and therefore labeling infidelity as an ok thing to do. the idea that this is a viable …

i’m happy to hear everyones thoughts as im very confused myself both regarding whether he “cheated”, whether i cheated and what to do next. my husband was out of town and i continued texting him and it quickly turned sexual. i tell my husband that i met someone i was attracted to and that basically started a conversation regarding an open situation. i then feel bad and tell my husband that it should be open on both sides but that …

so about a week ago i made a post asserting that about 90 percent of unhappily married people posting here were actually looking for healthy monogamy, not polyamory: one helpful commenter made the offhand reply that they had read that 90 percent of open marriages end in divorce, and i asked them to please send me a link to where they read that because it fit with my plucked-out-of-the-air figure, and i ended up finding it myself.â  granted, the website …