according to the myers-briggs personality profile, a person with intj personality type is introverted, intuitive, thinking and judging. you’re most likely a big thinker, meaning that you prefer to plan your relationships carefully versus throwing yourself into love. when you combine that with the tendency to plan relationships, there is the potential to idealize your partner before truly getting to know him or her. unless you want to get hit with a major letdown, this should be avoided. instead of …

we can be so matter-of-fact and hard-headed that it’s difficult to imagine us doing something as frivolous as falling in love. painful as it is, you’ve got to play with the other person, not manipulate them like pawns on a chessboard. and by big, i mean the sort of complex, probing, no-stone-left-unturned questions you get asked at an interview. so curb the sarcasm and offer up compliments if you want them to fall into your arms. you are skilled at …

once you know your personality type, you can then learn more about how this type interacts with others in interpersonal relationships, how they perceive the world around them, and what guides their decision-making mechanisms. for employers, this information is helpful to understand how to best manage and inspire all types of employees. they are strong strategic thinkers, excelling in analysis and critical thinking. they love to organize systems and make things work more efficiently. intjs struggle to find the right …

finally, others observing your outer self will notice that you tend to be flexible and adaptable (perceiving) in the way you live your life. eventually you will get a bulletproof strategy for success, born from your in-depth analysis of what works, what doesn’t work, and the best ways to adapt as you keep learning. and the fact you had to work for it will make your emotional vulnerability even more meaningful to your partner!

and because you might naturally struggle …

anyways, it’s got me thinking a lot about the mistakes i tend to make early on in a relationship that has led to detriments in the past. i’ve come to realize that entps tend to get wrapped up fully in a person to an obsessive degree (when the ne-fe loop is triggered). so in a similar fashion, we want to spend all our time with/talking to them, find out all we can and learn all we’re curious about them, get …