relationship advice for my daughter

there is a lot of time for dating, and there was no reason to rush into it. as she has with everything, my daughter is very level-headed—she wants more from life than just a boyfriend, or series of boyfriends. i love that we can talk about anything, i didn’t have that with my own mother, and it was definitely a priority for me as i helped to guide our relationship over the years. it’s made me a better person, and …

family relationship issues

many families face challenges, and our counsellors have summed up some of the most common problems and put together some practical tips to help you face them together. many parents worry about the most appropriate way to react – whether they should take a proactive approach and speak to the bully’s parents or whether… the sense of loss and upset when the contact between parent and children is lost can be overwhelming. the depth of sadness may come as a …

coping with relationship anxiety

there are many temptations to organize our life around the experience of earlier trauma. and while it can bounce back and forth from partner to partner, both the cause of our insecurity and its cure reside in us alone. knowing our attachment style is beneficial, because it can help us to realize ways we may be recreating a dynamic from our past. finally, it can make us more aware of how our feelings of insecurity may be misplaced, based on …

the problem with overlapping relationships

there are several reasons partners choose to end a relationship in this way, which we’ll examine in this post, along with alternatives to overlapping, and ways to grieve if your partner has chosen to end your relationship by “overlapping”. and, once the overlapper begins to get close to someone new, they may unconsciously start to pull walls up or feel guilt or pressure to end the relationship because of promises to – or honeymoon stage dreams with – a new …

teenage breakup advice

the only thing that sounded remotely appealing to this 46-year-old single parent was locking herself in her bedroom and curling up under the covers for the rest of her life. and now her 17-year-old was dealing with the pain of her first breakup. “honey, you haven’t touched your spaghetti,” barbara said, then took a bite, just to set an example. “too late, mother,” the 17-year-old snapped. “i’m already sick, sick of all the lousy stuff that’s happening to us.” “that’s …