some degree of conflict can even be healthy, as it means both people are expressing themselves, rather than keeping everything inside and letting emotions fester. but if you’re arguing all the time, or simple disagreements end up in a hostile silence or screaming match, it can really start to take a toll on things – or even leave you wondering whether you’re all that compatible in the first place. it’s how you deal with it that counts. it can be …
maybe it was the don’t-you-dare-side-with-your-mother-fight. whatever started the fight doesn’t matter; what does is that it was a doozy, one that left a smoking crater and will have inevitable aftershocks. the key is to prevent them in the first place. communication and taking the time to listen can make a big difference in healing the rifts and preventing spats from reaching nuclear proportions. fights will happen, but major blowouts don’t have to be a part of a relationship.” still, the …
it’s just that she screams “kind of like the queen in alice in wonderland,” uttering phrases reminiscent of “off with their heads.” neil responds like most guys in marriage fights. “everyone in a relationship argues,” debbie mandel, author of addicted to stress, says.
if both are hearty “boxers” who love a few rounds in the ring and then are ready for some make-up sex, the marriage is probably fine. experts on wedded bliss — some with the pedigree of education …
you throw out another insult and remind your partner how they forgot to take the trash out last week. if you’re fighting with your partner more and more often, it’s important to question why. “there are topics, [that are] essential to talk about when you’re in a relationship and living together, which can very easily turn into fights. this means that we do need to talk about them with our partners, but perhaps we can find a constructive way of …
it’s completely natural, and comes with the territory of being in a relationship. when you’re in the heat of the moment and feeling emotional, it’s tough to think before you open your mouth. speaking in terms of how you feel and offering potential solutions to try together, rather than blaming your partner completely, will remind you that you’re in a partnership and need to work together to have a stronger relationship. you can say something instead like, “i feel frustrated …