“if you aren’t interested, then you aren’t interested, and it’s honestly unfair to yourself and the guy to pretend that you are just because you feel pressured by other people to ‘give them a chance.'” so many teens think a ‘normal’ relationship is supposed to make you feel anxious and confused. people start thinking, ‘is this person really rejecting me or are they just playing hard to get?’ just be honest and clear from the beginning! it should just happen …

for anyone who seems to be experiencing the same relationship problems time and time again, it can help to take a step back and see if they have any habits that make someone toxic to date. but it’s important to spend a healthy amount of time apart, see friends, partake in hobbies, and so on. and this is a toxic habit that can stick around for years to come.

“this tends to become a balance sheet for who has made …

before i began dating my first and only partner at age 23, i had almost zero romantic or sexual experience. this is a popular narrative in the western world, but many of us don’t get around to dating and sex until later, sometimes much later. while it is not nearly as toxic as the incel community, visitors to r/foreveralone will quickly find the self-hating and defeatist tone of its posts shocking. being a late bloomer and not knowing how to …

she’s killing it in her career and has a solid group of friends to rely on. by definition, you’d think that she should want an alpha male, but he can provide only passion, not steadiness. what kind of man can keep her grounded while still challenging her to grow and be the best she can? an alpha woman knows what she needs to have a sturdy partnership with a man who’ll be her ally, her confidant and her best friend. …

in the parlance of the subreddit, women should avoid worthless “scrotes” and should always avoid “slanging pussy to fuckboys.” women should also maximize their looks: “your beauty, confidence, good company is a ‘commodity’ and can get you anything from men that crave just that,” writes one fds poster. the red pill delusionally believes we live in a world that benefits women to the detriment of men, particularly when it comes to sex and relationships. this perceived injustice is rooted in …