whether we’re propelled to therapy by a broken heart, a desire to meet “the one” who somehow seems to always elude us, or by a simple, primordial fear of dying alone, many of us seek professional insight into how to achieve the holy grail that is a healthy relationship. “most often, the reason is that people have unrealistic expectations for the number of efforts it will take to find someone great using the apps,” she says. “it is very likely …