in that sense, you can think of arguments as opportunities to really hear what the other person has to say, to say your piece, and to come out on the other side all the better for it. an argument likely doesn’t occur unless you have some grievance, but in order to make progress it’s best to express your complaint, explain how you’re feeling, then move on quickly to the solution, says judy ho, ph.d., a triple-board certified neuropsychologist, psychology professor …

when you think of intimacy with your partner, there are probably two types that come to mind: sexual and emotional. emotional intimacy is one of the most important types to share with your partner. the overall benefit of intellectual intimacy is being able to share thoughts and opinions that are respected by your partner. one of the most important parts of aesthetic intimacy is learning to appreciate each other’s interests. work intimacy isn’t about your careers — it’s about each …

it’s a process that requires energy, communication, and desire, an equation that can be difficult to muster in the midst of life’s daily stresses. so, yes, it’s important to find the cadence that works for you and your partner, but consistency and true connection here is the real key. dr. valeria chuba, a clinical sexologist, sex educator, and host of the get sex-smart podcast, agrees that being clear about each others’ needs and expectations is essential for a healthy sex …

divorce lawyers are all too familiar with what drives couples to their law offices, embittered and ready to call it quits. if you are not wrong, still apologize for upsetting your spouse during the argument.” ―brad m. micklin, an attorney in nutley, new jersey “life can be hectic and stressful, which can lead to anxiety, irritability and frustration. don’t be overly honest with your partner.” ―lynda l. hinkle, an attorney in turnersville, new jersey “poor communication is rampant in couples …

there are many temptations to organize our life around the experience of earlier trauma. differences of opinion are inevitable, and the sign of a relationship where partners share power and are comfortable in voicing their opinion. learning about what other couples fight about can help you realize just how normal some of your own arguments are, and also help you talk through issues ahead of time to avoid more damaging fights. there is quite a bit of similarity across studies …