polyamory relationship problems

this page is designed to describe some of the mistakes you can make in a non-monogamous relationship even if you are compassionate, honest, and well-intentioned. most of the time, veto is a negotiated and mutually agreed-upon rule; the people in a relationship that includes a veto power explicitly give that veto power to their partner. doing the latter is going to cause a lot of pain, both for that person and for his or her new partner; eventually, that pain …

polyamorous issues

but you don’t want to give up the relationship you are already in which is pretty good in some key ways: maybe you have children or a joint home you’ve put a lot of work into. maybe you know someone from the tennis club who is said to be into polyamory; they seem normal, very sane – and extremely cheerful. or, to take an example from politics, in principle, many people feel that direct democracy – with referenda every weekend …