one month into dating

and of course, sometimes the cheeky things you do that you think will slip under the radar will make him remember you…but in a not-so-positive way. if you went out of your way to show him that you really cared about him and were especially accommodating to his needs, then you more than likely will be remembered and appreciated. if you expect him to get it every time, chances are he’ll remember that in a negative way. if something happens …

9 months relationship

when you’ve been dating for 9 months, it’s safe to assume that you should be in a pretty good place with your partner. however, once you’ve overcome a few fights and tense moments and just lived as a couple, you realize how much more information and situations you need to ensure effective communication. i once had a friend proudly tell me that her boyfriend had never upset her and that they’d never had a fight. it’s a way of drawing …

8 month relationship problems

at eight months i hit a wall and i really had to decide if this is the guy worth fighting with and worth feeling the way i felt. i was one of those girls that once i was in a relationship i was completely zoned in on my boyfriend. i’ve hurt a lot of good people and messed with their feelings because i didn’t want to be alone. the first story is said that there was a messenger that was …

relationship ocd and marriage

they may do this by repeatedly asking family and friends as to whether they like and approve of the intended spouse. by the time patients with relationship ocd seek treatment they have often been engaged in compulsive checking, reassurance seeking, and rumination for many hours a day and for many months. i ask them to embrace uncertainty and be willing to sit with the anxiety caused by the thought that they may not be marrying the “right” person.

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relationship dates

is there a set number of dates you are supposed to go on before getting that designation? and even if you are sure it’s time, how do you know your partner is on the same page or how to bring it up? there is no real answer to that question, says kahan. “in the beginning, you want to see if there is commonality, if you enjoy each other, if you are attracted to each other, and that takes time,” she …