the last time i’d had sex with a man so soon after meeting, i was with him for 20 years and we had three kids together. i wanted him to stay the night, and he did. if he really gets to know me and sees how anxious i get when the house is a mess, how smelly my gas is after eating roasted veggies (i love roasted veggies and i’m not giving them up), if i give him a grand …

refrain from posting comments that are obscene, defamatory or inflammatory, and do not indulge in personal attacks, name calling or inciting hatred against any community. sex is all fun and games when there’s no responsibilities or the tag of ‘marriage’ upon you. if no one has told you yet, then you need to hear it: sex after marriage is complicated. and so, know what happily married people have to say about having sex after marriage! my husband and i are …

in the earlier years of my second marriage i’d stomp around like a 3-year-old demanding that god do something. your own bedroom is a great place to begin, and then expand from there as able. the goal for providing exclusive time together is to make your time with them feel less intrusive. a big mistake women often make after finding the man of their dreams is to eliminate girlfriends. i was raised to be polite to adults regardless of the …

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the lack of sleep, interference from well meaning in-laws and family members, hormones, and the overall adjustment is a huge stress on your life and your marriage. below is a list of our best advice for new parents on how to survive the first year of parenthood, without letting parenthood have a negative impact on your marriage. the earlier you learn to be patient, the better things will be for you, your spouse, and your marriage. 3) lower your expectations …