the one person with whom it works proves to you, in the course of being together, that he or she really gets who you are. how in the world can you get back to opening yourself up to someone who has hurt you? and you can allow yourself time to heal from the hurts of the past, because that is a natural process that cannot be rushed. because your guard remains up (that was number one in this list), your …

my husband and i had both been through divorce before we married each other, and with that brings a unique perspective into many do’s and don’ts of how to treat your spouse. this is the man that you have chosen to walk alongside you for the rest of your life, and to lead your family and he needs to be respected for that quality alone. i get that we all have struggles, and there are even times when i would …

here, the nuggets of nuptial wisdom you’ve stayed faithful to over the years. so i took lessons, and now my husband and i hit the links once a month. it’s a silly trick that sounds straight out of the 1950s, but i have to admit that i’ve tried it a few times in the three years i’ve been married — and it works!” that means three nights a week i get to hold the remote and watch whatever i want, …

i was in a world of debt, and losing friends fast. my previous relationships had created a yearning for validation that ruled me mentally, physically, and emotionally. one night when things were at their worst, i was walking toward my condo and saw a book sitting on a bench. i’m a spiritual person, and i took the text as a sign that i needed to stop putting my relationships before god and myself. i avoided situations in which i could …

he is reserved with his feelings and chooses to keep them from the rest of the world. but her generous nature and willing to forgive grabs attention of capricorn man and her warmth and courage is something he always need. perhaps then she is able to uncover the core of the deeply rooted passion and experience that he can truly give. but this time he has bought me a gift an expensive one and it something that i like. ???? …