“gay and lesbian couples, like straight couples, deal with every day ups and downs of close relationships,” dr. gottman observes. “we know that these ups and downs may occur in a social context of isolation from family, workplace prejudice, and other social barriers that are unique to gay and lesbian couples. the research uncovered differences, however, that suggest that workshops tailored to gay and lesbian couples can have a strong impact on relationships.” i’ve studied extensively at the gottman institute …