convenience marriage
there are many temptations to organize our life around the experience of earlier trauma. a marriage of convenience could only be named, and criticized, when an alternative emerged. on the “pro” side, the best thing about a marriage of convenience is that it’s convenient. but, before you divorce from the marriage of convenience, look around your shared dwelling, and life, and imagine the post-marriage world. and are you ever free from the offending marriage in name only?
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