marriage is pointless

i don’t believe the idea of marriage has any merit on the quality of a relationship. the process of getting married feels like nothing more than validation for something that already exists and is self-sustaining. things will only be as good as the amount of work you put in. they’re not the ones who’re responsible for keeping up that relationship, they already have their own. it’s up to you and your partner. you don’t pay each other for it, you …

hate marriage

in 2014, the general social survey was conducted by norc at the university of chicago. also in 2014, barely 60 percent of married people said that they were happy with their marriage. this was lower compared to more than the reported 65 percent in 2012. only 57 percent of women said their marriage was happy in 2014, compared to nearly 65 percent reported two years before. for both genders, the numbers were among the lowest levels of marital happiness reported …

the problem with overlapping relationships

there are several reasons partners choose to end a relationship in this way, which we’ll examine in this post, along with alternatives to overlapping, and ways to grieve if your partner has chosen to end your relationship by “overlapping”. and, once the overlapper begins to get close to someone new, they may unconsciously start to pull walls up or feel guilt or pressure to end the relationship because of promises to – or honeymoon stage dreams with – a new …