according to a recent national survey in the uk, 51% of women and 42% of men report experiencing at least one sexual difficulty. low libido, or low desire, is an interesting one because it’s only really a problem if it causes you distress, and it’s most likely to cause you distress in the context of a relationship. and there can also be a discrepancy in terms of what type of sex you want to have, as well as how, when, …

tune into any tv show, the radio, or your twitter feed, and the message is clear: if you’re in a relationship, you should be having hot, mind-blowing, on-top-of-the-table sex … all the time. in fact, one survey found that 30 percent of male participants in their 40s and 34 percent in their 50s who were in a relationship hadn’t had sex the previous year. for women in their 40s and 50s, about 21 percent reported no sex with their partner …