in a lesbian breakup, your partner is more likely to be your bff in addition to your friend, and you’re more likely to see them around or even remain friends with them after they rip your heart out of your chest and make a necklace out of it. like texting her 24/7 as if you never broke up while she proceeds to move on and date other people right in front of your face — just for example. you actually …

this feels especially true of breakups, the great equaliser. when i was a teenager (the late 2000s) and began to understand that i was attracted to women, i felt like i was the only one in the world. some were not out as bisexual or gay yet and i watched, in real time, as they went through the difficulties that i went through as a teenager, from confusion to shame. the depictions of lesbian relationships she did see were intense …

there are some very common issues among female pairings, and i will be offering relationship advice for lesbian couples for five of the most common issues. however, when it comes to lesbian relationships, we are remarkably similar in the types of issues we experience. rare is the lesbian who finds herself in the break room at work, sharing stories about her wife and their relationship. or, how often have you heard a heterosexual woman express concern that her husband is …