in the past my relationship life kind of went like this: meet, have a date or two, end up in bed, then end up together. so it was for many years: wash, rinse, repeat, without me even truly recognizing that i was in this never ending cycle. see i was all ready to repeat my insanity cycle when he informed me that because of similar patterns in his past relationships, he wanted to try to do things differently this time …

though there are many dating methods and rules suggested in christian circles, the bible does not explicitly discuss how a christian should approach dating. in the early 2000s, joshua harris’ book, i kissed dating goodbye, swept through the christian world and encouraged christians to no longer date, but wait for the one person whom they would marry. also, even if a christian is dating a believer, they need to be aware of the other person’s relationship with god.

although these …

you’ve been thinking about what it will be like to have sex with someone else. being intimate with someone again after losing a love that may even have been a lifetime love,wondering if it really is like “getting back on a bike again.” obviously, having “new sex” is thrilling but not a reason to divorce (tell that to perpetual cheaters though),but you are getting a divorce. if you’ve wondered what it’s like to get back in the sexual saddle after …

as much as i want that lucky girl to be the perfect girl for him, i also want him to be prepared for her. and always walk your date to the door at the end of the night. so the longer you date a person, the more you should get to know her. as nice as it is to hear good things, it’s even better to have them written down so you can reference back to them. i might point …

let’s get one thing straight right now: if you want to have sex on the first date, you have every right to finish your pinot and do the d*mn thing. for this reason, despite feeling a connection with your date and wanting to jump their bones, you might hesitate or skip the deed entirely because you don’t want your date to lose respect for you. now that you did your homework about your opinions toward sex on the first date, …