try too hard to impress and you’ll come across as desperate or cocky. it’s a fine line to walk, especially when he’s right there distracting you with his beard and biceps and nice cologne. but for those of us in the era of apps, sex on the first date is often very much on the table (or the couch). if you met online, don’t assume this is clear based on your profile, or his. in either case, be prepared if …

here are a few guidelines that every smart gay man should keep in mind to stay on top of his game and out of a dead-end relationship. don’t text him too much before the first date.this is a sure fire way to fall in love with the idea of him before getting to know him at all. just because someone can be funny in text or concoct the perfect reply to your questions does not mean that you two are …

when you do feel that you’re ready, remember that the words you use to identify aren’t *you* — your gender and sexuality are more complex than any of them.” “bisexuality is real and it is a spectrum. if you don’t fit the black and white of these identities, that’s ok — you just might fit in the gray area.” i eventually found refuge in a queer tinder match and even just that stunted coming out conversation with a stranger helped …

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