“if you bring a fantasy about what the ideal friend will do in any situation to a relationship, you are setting yourself up for disappointment,” says dr. yager. this is why it’s so important to ask for what you need, even if it puts you in a vulnerable situation, says leslie jay, lmhc, a professional counselor. it’s better for your mental health to accept that you really don’t know the reason why. there’s no worse feeling than when you check …

changing friendships is a normal part of kids growing up, particularly as they experience puberty and change to middle or high school environments. if you are concerned that your child is having social changes due to drama, bullying, or other problems, there are some key signs to be aware of. you can help your child by encouraging them to join clubs or teams where they will have the opportunity to meet other kids that share their interests.

however, when signs …

to help your child avoid toxic friendships, you can try talking with your child about what ‘good’ friends are like – they’re the friends who look out for your child, care about them, include them in activities and treat them with respect. you could encourage your child to have friends over and give them space in your home. you can help your child feel this way by encouraging them to focus on their strengths, and praising their strengths yourself. you …

it’s intellectual, the sharing of ideas and thoughts. a fear of intimacy is often unconscious and affects a person’s ability to form or maintain close relationships. this affects not just romantic relationships but also friendships and family relationships. babies cry to express their needs, and some caregivers may respond insensitively or may not respond at all. fear of intimacy can also be due to childhood trauma, such as the loss of a parent or abuse. people with personality disorders have …