onlookers to twin relationships can idealize the closeness and companionship that twins share. while the twin attachment is strong, enduring, and very close, the twin bond can also be fraught with competition, obligation, anger, and resentment. separating from your twin can be traumatic, liberating, and tricky. how to have a healthy relationship with your twin can be totally mysterious to twins in the throes of fighting with each other or having difficulty living separate lives. twins like to evaluate one …