exclusive but not relationship
i was looking for someone to hang out with and, if i’m totally honest, someone to hook up with more exclusively — like a regular friend with benefits, but none of the other obligations. what i really wanted was something in-between; i wanted the goldilocks set-up of being exclusive, but not in an official relationship. ultimately, our super casual relationship did evolve, and we made things official, but i truly believe part of the reason our relationship has gone the …