one of the weird things that comes up when you write about topics like sex, self-improvement or relationships is how often you face the question of whether or not to mine your own life for content. they had a crush on me and wanted to date … [read more…] hi dr. nerdlove, i’ve been a huge fan of yours for a decade now–you gave me such thoughtful and kind advice when i struggled with “losing” my virginity years ago … …