if you’re dating someone who’s a little nervous about who to trust, here are ways to help them out. being kind to them might be a nice bandage, but it won’t heal the wound. it’s a long process, so if you really like him, things may be hard for a while. when your partner literally uses the line of “it’s not you, it’s me,” you need to believe them. just make sure not to gab about it with your friends. …
don’t take it personally; people with commitment issues tend to have a tough time connecting with other aspects of their life, such as friends, family, work and even their living environment. men and women with commitment issues tend to have a deep fear of intimacy, and their feelings are borne of a learned negative opinion of love and relationships. they tend to compartmentalize their lives so that the romantic and personal and professional hardly ever overlap – if you’re excluded …
if you don’t have it, you’ll never be able to build the connection needed for a long-term love. they don’t divulge stories of their childhood and they can even hold you at arms-length, not allowing you to get too close physically, either. it may take some time and it’ll be a learning process, but you can do it. you can’t force someone to tell you everything about who they are and why they have issues. if you give them the …
all relationships have good days and bad days, but just because you two may not agree on something, or life doesn’t go the way you want it to, does not mean it needs to turn into a huge fight. if your partner is so angry and upset that they start screaming at you for something that has absolutely nothing to do with you, simply walk out the door and go somewhere for 10-20 minutes. punching bags are actually pretty hard …
whatever reason you are with someone who has trust issues now, if you want the relationship to last there are a few things you should keep in mind. if you are not the sort of person that does deep and meaningful conversations every other day it can be hard to sit and listen. for example, if you say you are going to be home at a certain time, go out of your way to get home at that time. it …