having things to talk about in a new relationship is important. the main point of dating someone is to get to know that person better, so you can decide if the two of you have long-term potential. the best way to do that is by having plenty of good conversations, so you can learn how your date thinks and feels about the things that are important to you. that’s why it’s so important to steer some of your conversations to …

healthy boundaries are a reflection of your principles, rules, and guidelines that you have set for yourself. if you feel your partner is speaking from unjustified anger or with a disrespectful tone, you are within your right to remove yourself from the scenario. if you need help, it can be good to establish where your boundaries are and what you do and do not want help with. in an argument, you or your partner may say things you regret that …

there are many other lovely ways to feel connected and close to your partner. take into consideration the daily discussions, rituals, and bonding moments you share with your partner on a day-to-day basis. stoke the fires between you by sending each other off warmly with a lingering kiss and a long embrace. when your partner reaches for you, it feels good to be seen and wanted. keep each other’s positive characteristics and attributes in the forefront of your minds. accept …

you have learned your strengths and weaknesses in the relationship. what matters is how your relationship functions on a day to day basis and how both of you feel in the partnership. if there are any signs that your partner is trying to pass you off as “just a friend” or keep the relationship concealed, confront them. for example, if it bothers you that you’ve always wanted kids and your partner is adamant that they don’t, it’s time to have …

people with an avoidant attachment style have a deep-rooted fear of losing their autonomy and freedom in a relationship. our attachment style is on a spectrum, and can change over time and shift based on the person you are dating. when you self-soothe and get yourself in a positive state, find time to communicate your needs and preferences to your partner. for example, the next time he feels an inclination to “go poof” into his mancave, he can give you …