the problem, of course, is that many nerds feel that being geeky or nerdy is a hindrance. even if you’re interested in dating an actual geek and not an idealized fantasy figure, the fact that you’re both geeks doesn’t mean that all of your problems are solved. a case of arrested development living in their parent’s basement, unable to live out in the “real world”. when you call yourself a geek, these are the stereotypes you’re going to be facing. …