my mom has always said the happiest time of her life was her 30s — she cared less, loved more, changed, grew, and most importantly, she gained more confidence in who she was, without making any excuses. i’m still 2.5 years away from the big 3-0, but many of my friends — who i admire for their wit and wisdom — have already entered their fourth decade and have a lot of thoughts about their 20s. and when it comes …

i know that, “logically,” we should look at relationships differently in our 50s and 60s, but, the truth is that many of us don’t. he says that older women have the power to make a connection that turns into a dating opportunity. you will find out soon enough if they are married or committed, so, for now, just be friendly and see what happens. sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great …

i’m wondering if you could spare some precious time of yours to give me your expert advice on my relationship right now. if only for his character and values, i know that this person is who i would like to have as my partner for life. is it really possible for a man to be content with an older woman? however, when the woman is older, the relationship tends to attract more attention, even opprobrium (with its own vocabulary of …

anytime we say goodbye, we always say, ‘i love you’; and we make sure to thank the other for all the things we do. it just makes sure you never take the other for granted and they know it.” you learn and grow with each other and find new things to love.” gain your partner’s perspective before rushing to anger. it also takes a lot of trust and respect. not anyone else’s, so don’t compare it to your friends’ relationships. …

)if it is true that girls marry men like theirfathers, then it is understandable why so many mothers cry so much at weddings.don’t imagine you can change a man — unless he’s in diapers.a successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. you shut the door.never let your man’s mind wander — it’s too little to be out alone.remember:when she cancels a date, it is because…“she has to.”when he cancels a date, it is because.. …