relationship fighting advice
the trouble with using blanket terms like “always” and “never” when you’re arguing with a partner is that doing so puts unnecessary limitations on your conversation, and even on your relationship. it can be tempting to push your perspective on your partner to ensure they really understand your side of the argument. the next time you feel like you’ve fallen into “the processing hole,” keenan suggests turning to your partner and saying: according to anna macgregor robin, a therapist in …