couples seek therapy with all kinds of goals in mind: rebuilding trust, improving communication, deepening closeness and connection, rebalancing roles and responsibilities in the relationship, navigating large transitions and decisions, and improving sex (to name a few). at different times your therapist acts as a communication coach, a referee, a teacher, and a guide. our therapists approach couples therapy in the same way we approach individual therapy, with the first goal being to explore, identify, and deepen your understanding of …

how many times have you heard someone say, “if i only knew then what i know now?” this wisdom and skill building is what we hope to impart upon the couples we work with in lgbtq couples counseling. lgbtq couples encounter some unique issues in their relationships and we are here to help. if you would prefer a gay therapist for lgbtq in your couples counseling, let our scheduling person know and we will match you with the appropriate provider. …

“gay and lesbian couples, like straight couples, deal with every day ups and downs of close relationships,” dr. gottman observes. “we know that these ups and downs may occur in a social context of isolation from family, workplace prejudice, and other social barriers that are unique to gay and lesbian couples. the research uncovered differences, however, that suggest that workshops tailored to gay and lesbian couples can have a strong impact on relationships.” i’ve studied extensively at the gottman institute …

lgbtq couples argue about money, sex, extended family, or household chores—and plenty of other topics that have nothing to do with sexual preferences or gender expression. although the challenges that lgbtq+ couples encounter on the basis of their identification as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning can be unique, our specialty pages on couples, relationship, and marriage counseling may also address your concerns.

); understanding and accepting your partner’s strange worldviews (conservative or liberal political leanings; spiritual differences; or conflicting …