attachment disorder and infidelity
there are many temptations to organize our life around the experience of earlier trauma. i am going to look at the issue from the lens of anxious and avoidant attachment. the fearful style is a combination of anxious and avoidant attachment and is less likely to adhere to a set pattern. and so, the dismissing person is unlikely to be seeking love, attention, and nurturance in the arms of another person.
they may be more open to romantic encounters outside …