we use your sign-up to provide content in ways you’ve consented to and to improve our understanding of you. but the minute i arrived, she announced she was going into hospital for an operation and  i was left caring for her husband. not only did i end up cooking and caring for the man, but i had to keep taking him to the hospital to see her and he was reluctant to give me any petrol money. i’m on my …

i get jealous and sick to my stomach when she is over there. i love my wife very much and want to support her in this. and it doesn’t sound like you two were on the same page when it came to what opening your relationship entailed. she has been happy to give me pleasure multiple times per month even, but she talks of it like it’s a chore (“wifely duties”) and is always asking me why i want it …