indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” [qur’an: chapter 30, verse 21] the whole purpose of having a spouse is to find tranquility in and with them; and our relationships with our spouses have signs that allah is asking us to give thought to. and you don’t have to wait for the hereafter to bear the consequences of such denial. they never desert love and respect for each other in conflict: this, is the key to …