abandonment rage breakup
in dr. helen fisher’s research on broken hearts, she found that once a partner recognizes that they are “never, ever getting back together” they might enter the “abandonment rage stage”. the rage and anger are an attempt to protect you from the incredible vulnerability that exists when someone you’re attached to is leaving you. these feelings are fueled by adrenaline. they take away the ability for rational thought. for some, this rage might come out in angry journaling, complaining to …